10 Best Books for Overcoming People-Pleasing at Work

I said yes to everything for thirty-four years. Not dramatically. Not in a way that anyone noticed, which is the trick of people-pleasing — it looks like being.

I said yes to everything for thirty-four years. Not dramatically. Not in a way that anyone noticed, which is the trick of people-pleasing — it looks like being.

The thing about losing a friend is that nobody brings you a casserole. Nobody sends flowers. There's no funeral where people stand in a line and tell you.

There's a specific kind of anxiety that lives in the future. It's not about anything happening right now. It's about everything that could happen — the job you.

The thing nobody tells you about joy is that it doesn't announce itself. It doesn't arrive with a soundtrack or a specific feeling you can point to and say,.

There's a specific moment at work that I think about more than I should. It was a Wednesday — last year, sometime in November — when a parent came into my.

There's a day in October — usually the second or third week, sometimes later if we're lucky — when Portland stops pretending it's still summer and just gives.

I turned 37 in the apartment with the dry-erase marker stains on the kitchen table, and I remember thinking: three years from 40, and I am not who I thought.

I still remember the moment I realized I wasn't as rational as I thought I was. It was during a heated debate with my best friend about whether to invest in.

I was 36 years old, standing in the cereal aisle at Safeway, when I completely fell.

Not because anything terrible had happened. I'd had a perfectly nice birthday dinner with friends. But afterward, I sat in my car staring at a face in the.